You Really Can’t ‘Fix’ Other People—Here’s How to Make Peace With That

If anything, a savior complex could make the situation you’re trying to improve worse. According to Gutiérrez, constantly forgiving or…

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Your Mattress Types Guide for 2024

Thanks to their bouncy coils, innerspring and hybrid mattresses both generally offer high responsiveness and ease of movement. Latex mattresses…

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20 Best Shoes for Traveling in 2024

Whether you’re a city sightseer, a happy camper, or an expert beachcomber, you deserve the best shoes for traveling. After…

The Case for the ‘Mental Health Manicure’

Dr. Ruan also backs me up on the motivation behind my personal “mental health manicures”: stress prep. “If you know…

Lady Gaga Shows Off Her Dramatic New Hair Color at the ‘Joker’ Premiere

While her hair hue was undeniably eye-catching, she kept her outfit a bit more subdued, opting for a black floor-length…

The Best Fall Movies to Cozy Up With All Season Long

We were practically attached to our ACs all summer, so we’re thrilled to bring you a much more fun reason…

‘Friendship First’ Is Our September SELF Well-Read Book Club Pick

Each month, the SELF Well-Read Book Club highlights a timely, delightful, and crucial book on a subject that helps readers live…

How Cody Rigsby Hypes Himself Up

In SELF’s new Hot Stuff series, we’re asking celebrities, athletes, and other notable people to share the habits, rituals, and…

What Does It Really Mean to Trust Your Gut?

Making a big life decision can be agonizing: Should you quit your job and start your own business? Have a…

12 Books That’ll Get You in That Cozy Fall Mood

Like a lot of self-proclaimed, proud young nerds, the back-to-school season was my favorite time of year growing up. The…