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The Surprising Health Benefits of Watching the Sunrise or Sunset

This article is part of SELF’s 2024 Guide to Getting Outside, an editorial package that explores the connection between nature…

Let’s Hear It for the Dolls: A Day Shooting Hoops With Brooklyn’s Transfemme Basketball League

At Thomas Boyland Park in Bushwick, a crowd is gathered to watch a pickup basketball tournament. Despite the rain, the…

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Elite, gorgeous Manhattan socialites lead extravagant, over-the-top lives in this fan-favorite teen melodrama. It’s pretty unrelatable to most of us—and…

Jay Cutler’s Technique for Perfecting the Dumbbell Bench Press

Jay Cutler may have become famous for his “Quad Stomp,” but without a physique that was in proportion to the…

How to Do the Kettlebell Windmill to Light Up Your Abs and Shoulders

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Long flights and road trips are stressful enough—the last thing you need to worry about is what you’re wearing. The…

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